Dressing up to dress down isn’t anything new, but for some people who’ve never tried it, it’s a whole new world. And getting into a bizarre role can take more than just about buying a new costume. Planning, picking a role and the right props should all be considered.
But why do people do it?
It’s simple, sexual fantasy is part of our psyche. It’s probably one of the first things we think about when we meet someone we are attracted to for the first time. And in an established relationship sexual fantasy should never be forgotten about. And more than anything it can be a lot of fun. Our imaginations allow us to go to places that are otherwise off-limits or certainly not a part of our daily reality. It can also enhance our sex lives by trying out role-play situations with our partners. It builds trust as there is nothing more personal than revealing your deepest fantasies that you keep from everyone else.
Fantasy role play is more about letting go than having a perfectly directed sex scene. So leave your porn-perfect ideas at the door and embrace it. When you’re in a monogamous relationship role play allows you to feel as if you’re with someone else when you’re with the one you truly love.
Another benefit is that when you’re in a long-term relationship with someone, sex can become routine. And we don’t want that to happen, so why not explore the world of role-play and discover a new sexual identity. You never know what new fantasies could take your fancy, and you might just have the best orgasms you’ve experienced in years.
The best roleplay ideas
Call a mechanic – you’ve got a broken down engine and you need a quick fix. Okay, (don’t roll your eyes) this is one of the simplest storylines to play out, but can be a good icebreaker for role-play newbies.
Catch a convict – A classic cop and criminal role play is possibly one of the easiest scenes you can play out, and adaptable to either male or female enforcer.
Play the naughty student – another classic scene that for any man or woman who had a childhood crush on their teacher will love to play out.
Meet a stranger at a bar – this one will test you and your partners acting skills as you take the role play to a public place like a bar or a coffee shop and go through a whole scenario of meeting for the first time all the way back to the bedroom. It’s a challenge but one you won’t regret.
Amateur porn star – that’s right, one of you plays the role of an experienced sex film star as the other an innocent novice. You can take it to the next level and film it, and you’ll come away with a souvenir sex-tape.
Fall in love with a stripper – For the slightly more rhythmic of your duo, performing a seductive strip tease is a certain crowd-pleaser. And if you have a thing for Magic Mike, then this could be just for you.
Fireman saves the day – this is another well-known dress-up tale, and outfits are easy to come by. Get steamy and “call” 999, whether you’ve left the iron on or had a waxy accident with candles, the devil is in the detail with this role play story.
Have an office fling – Get down to business and be the boss by playing out an office romance. If you have keys to a place of work for a bit of after-hours fun then even better. If not, suit up and use a table as a desk. Ties are essential for this professional roleplay.
Be a jungle pimp – Be the Hugh Hefner in your relationship and throw on a leopard print velvet tux. This role play lends itself to a dom/sub relationship and could be a good way to try out BDSM for first timers.
Some of the stranger ideas
The above ideas are pretty mainstream. Roleplay can get pretty strange pretty quickly as after all its wherever your imagination takes you. The lead characters of Harry Potter getting into trouble with their favourite or evilest teachers is one scenario some anonymous contributors have admitted to on the wider web.
Roleplay online
Roleplay is not exclusive to the bedroom as many have taken their pursuits for sexual fiction online. There are fully immersive dream realms that makes Game of Thrones look like Disney. It’s just a matter of searching. Alternatively, you can talk out your wildest fantasies with our experienced Xpanded girls on phone chat.
